The Bamboo Man Chronicles

A Day That Cannot
Be Planned

Damyang, South Korea  ·  October 2015

I Bobby Grimes and the Head Monk, Yongheungsa Temple

You and the Head Monk, standing together inside his private quarters. Both grinning. Behind you, a large traditional ink painting of Bodhidharma — the Indian monk who brought Zen to China, who sat in cave meditation for nine years, who is the ancestral root of every Korean Buddhist tradition in that room. The tea ceremony table between you covered in dozens of vessels, teas, and offerings. His library behind him. This is not a tourist photograph. This is two men who found each other.

II The Head Monk on his phone, Bodhidharma watching

The Head Monk, alone, on his iPhone. Bodhidharma watching over his shoulder. This is the moment. He is calling the nuns to move the lunch that has been served at exactly noon for hundreds of years. The laugh on his face is the laugh of a man who is genuinely delighted to be breaking a centuries-old tradition — for a cultural ambassador from Hawaii who knew his teacher's teacher's books.

III The Head Monk preparing the tea ceremony

The Head Monk preparing the tea ceremony himself. Laughing, pouring — complete focus and complete joy, simultaneously. Look at those hands. Look at those shelves of tea behind him. He is not performing. He is simply being present. You brought that out in him.

IV Bobby Grimes and Lucian Choi

Lucian Choi. ROK Army officer. Governor-appointed cultural translator. Detroit Tigers cap. That smile. This is the man who whispered — "The lunch is always exactly at noon. For hundreds of years." And then watched the monk pick up his iPhone anyway. Lucian was assigned by the Governor himself to be by your side — to ensure that every word between you and Korea was honored with precision and care.

V Yongheungsa Temple grounds, standing Buddha, mist

The monastery grounds. A standing Buddha taller than the temple roof. Ancient Korean architecture — the traditional tiled curved eaves, the stone pathways worn smooth by centuries of feet. Mist rolling through the mountains behind. This is not a tourist site. This is a living, breathing, ancient place. And you had lunch there.

VI Bobby and the Head Monk before Daeungjeon

The iconic photograph. You and the Head Monk in front of the great hall — 大雄殿 (Daeungjeon) — the Hall of the Great Hero, the main Buddha hall of a Korean temple. Him holding the black umbrella over both of you in the rain. The painted eaves above. The stone steps below. The calligraphy columns on either side. This photograph looks like it was commissioned. It was not. It simply happened because you were there.

VII Temple historical notice — 1700 year old Baekje temple

The monastery historical notice, posted on the temple door. The headline reads: 1700년 백제 고찰, 한국전쟁 때 소실 근래 복원"A 1,700-year-old Baekje Dynasty temple, destroyed in the Korean War, recently restored." You had lunch in a 1,700-year-old temple. One of the Three Kingdoms you had studied from an Ann Arbor bookstore. The Baekje Kingdom. You had read about it. And then you ate Kimchi in it.

VIII The dining hall — Lucian bowing to the nuns

The dining hall. Lucian in his green and yellow jacket. The Head Monk moving. The nuns preparing. Low wooden tables. Steel kettles. The simplicity of a monastic lunch that has been served every day for centuries — moved thirty minutes early, for one visitor. Lucian is bowing — to the kitchen staff, to the nuns who rearranged everything at a moment's notice. He understood the full weight of what had just happened. He bowed without being asked.

"The lunch at Yongheungsa Temple has been served at exactly noon for hundreds of years. On this day, they moved it thirty minutes early. I still don't fully understand why they were so kind to me. I am still grateful."